tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-56577046313664154952024-03-14T15:29:06.761+01:00 Chaviva'sSteering you to become the total man.......Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.comBlogger77125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-38383529312826066092017-06-09T13:29:00.003+01:002017-06-09T13:31:51.562+01:00Get Rid Of that Clutter <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">The word "clutter" signals stress and anxiety for a lot of us. And when the clutter happens right in our homes, we are already exhausted even before cleaning starts. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Living in a society where we have too much stuff, hoard unnecessary things and work long hours, clutter is not far off from us. Even stay at home moms can have issues with clutter. Believe me, children can so keep you on your toes and that you lose a hang on things. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Does your home need to be de - cluttered but don't know where and how to begin? Continue reading as this tips will give you a head start. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Take a look at the things in your home/room and ask yourself the following questions ;</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">i. How often do I use this? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">ii. Is this still relevant to my lifestyle?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">iii. Am I keeping this items for sentimental value?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">iv. What do I use often?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Based on the above questions, you should be considering these possible solutions;</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">i. If you have items that you use less often, consider using closet storage containers to store them away. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">ii. If you have lots of stuff such as books, toys, clothes that are no more relevant to your lifestyle, it's time to give them away. Give them either to a charity, church welfare or donation centre. Someone in need would really appreciate it.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">iii. We hoard so much stuff. Though they might be worn and nonfunctional, we still keep them. Ok, I know this stuff was passed to you by your great mother, but hey! it so old and you don't even use it. It's time to get rid of it. I am not being insensitive here, but truth is we tend to harbour lots junks in the name of sentiments. If you want to be clutter free.... get rid of them. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">iv. The items that you use often should be the visible ones, most especially in your closet. This allows for easy accessibility. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">A hamper, bin or a fancy basket would work just fine. All dirty clothes should always go to this bin. You also ensure the bin is in a separate place in your room or the house. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">De-cluttering a space is really tasking. So, take it one day at a time. Set apart at least 30mins (Do more if you can) to de-clutter that space. You are on your way to a clutter free space.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">There is popular adage that says "time waits for no man. I believe this means time flies and before you know it its ten years or more down the line. This is so evident as we see children who were born right before our eyes now giving birth themselves. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">The bible also has something to say about time. The apostle Paul emphasized importance of time in the verse below. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">"See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise, Redeeming the time, because the days are evil." </span><a href="http://bible.com/1/eph.5.15-16.KJV" style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: x-large;" target="_blank">Ephesians 5:15-16</a><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">So what does Paul mean by redeeming the times? Can time be redeemed? Looking at definition of the word redeem ; It means to buy back, ransom, rescue from los</span><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">. Paul was cautioning us to use our time wisely. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Time management has been one topic that has caught the interest of many and sold million books. While its a good attitude to imbibe, Paul advocates more than this. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">¡. He says we are to walk circumspectly which means being careful, with great prudence. He also mentioned that that we have to wise in use of time because, the days are evil. A lot is happening in the world today and Christians seem so oblivious of it. The pursuit of career, ambition, fame and power is so strong and overwhelming that even Christians are caught up in it. While all these things have their place, an idolatrous passion to have all this has consumed the society. As a result of this, more have lost touch with spiritual things. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">¡¡. It is a human error to believe that we are invincible and would live forever. But who knows what will happen tomorrow. Instead of running after unprofitable and vain things, we should focus on things that are eternally beneficial. We can practice all the time management we want, but if we are not aligning it with God's will and his purpose for us, it's still a sheer waste of time. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">¡¡¡. Procrastination is one terrible thing that wastes our time. We put off vital decisions and choices that will affect our family, health, spiritual life positively till latter dates. Funny, we never get to doing those things. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Here are some few questions that might help to use our time wisely. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Is this according to God's purpose for me? </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Does this affect my family health and career positively?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">May the lord grant use grace to use our days according to his will. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I know this dear person who, while growing up </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">, was very shy. In fact, I can say that she is an introvert. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">But now, If you</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> meet Rida , you would never believe any of what I just said about her. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I recently attended a workshop with her and witnessed a completely different Rida. She literally threw herself into it. She was visible; interacted with people and contributing. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">From the various feedbacks, it seemed </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Rida made a big impression on the minds of the attendees and her facilitators. I think so too. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Knowing Rida, I could not help but marvel at this new personality emerging out of her. Maybe, I should have even tagged this piece “How Rida got her voice”. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Yours truly decided to probe in to this. Rida disclosed that she actually loved seminars and workshops all this while. But she wasn't able to share her opinions because she was very shy. She also believed that she missed out on lots of opportunities,because s</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">he could not socialise. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">So what did she do about it? She put herself situations where she had to contribute. It was terrible at first. In her own words, she said "It
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Still, I kept reading about public speaking and j</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">umped at every opportunity to practice it". </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I also read wide on interpersonal skills. "</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The big break came when she joined a creative non-profit organisation. There, she met a couple of friends who
encouraged her creativity and gave her opportunities to share her ideas</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> on big
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">With all these was going on, a strong personality was being developed. Rida can now talk
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-75410517559972944002017-04-28T21:18:00.000+01:002017-05-03T11:09:31.724+01:00Musings On Appropriate Christian Ministers' Dressing<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
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I like watching preaching videos a lot on YouTube. So I was
looking out for something new to watch and I came across the message of a popular
minister. I opened the video and I was immediately shocked by what I saw. This
female minister (name withheld) was actually preaching to a global audience and
wearing a dress that revealed her cleavage. You could even see part of her
bra as she move about on the altar. I was so astonished.</div>
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I would say, she is not the first female minister to
dress inappropriately. Sadly, some Christians don’t see anything wrong with this, and others, well, would asked that we all just keep silent and go
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Is there an appropriate dressing for female ministers?<br />
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believe there is and so the right answer is yes. Looking at the levitical priesthood dressing in Exodus
28:2-4, Leviticus 8;7. Special outfits were designed for those who were chosen
as priests and while it seemed that others just wear what they chooses, all worshipers are also expected to adhere to the "worship-mode" dressing as such that would not provoke lusting while establishing a clear distinction between the genders.<br />
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Today the priestly robe has evolved beyond collars, cassocks and various styles of pulpit
gowns that we grow up to known its "churchy". Those who wear this then and even now are recognized as ordained ministers. This
is not to say that all ministers must follow this trend. It is neither a symbol of
holiness nor the gold-standard for approximate dressing. I am just establishing that appropriate attire for ministers,
originates from the bible and its based on the belief that we are an ambassador of a new order under God. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Some would say we are no longer the law; we are under the
law of liberty in Christ Jesus. Which means the priestly garment are not a must.
YES, I agree. But does liberty permit us to anything and everything. Galatians
5:12 says not to use our liberty as occasion to flesh. Paul goes on to say in
Romans 12:1 that we are to present ourselves ( our bodies ) as a living
sacrifice holy and acceptable to God. In 1 Timothy 2:9, 1
Peter 3: 3-5 Women (I mean Christian women) are being admonished to modesty.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Let’s do some straight talk here. I agree that we are all from different
backgrounds, cultures and world views. But once you accept Jesus and rise to
the extent of being a minister, you become a representative (ambassador) of
Jesus. Hence the bible is now your handbook/guide. Therefore, if you are doing
contrary to what is written in your handbook the bible, you are no longer
representing JESUS. It simply means you have defected and representing something
else or someone else.<o:p></o:p></div>
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As a minister, when your audience are distracted because of what you're wearing or how you won it carelessly, that simply means they haven’t heard anything you said. They were just
thinking of how to get your super shinning earrings or flashy "flesh" revealing outfit. In other words, you haven't represent Christ but you have fully represent yourself.<br />
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not against jewelries or cool clothes. I am just saying as ministers , we are
there to exalt and present Jesus. But if we project anything else either by commission or ommission in a way that distract your hearer from getting the the real gospel message, you really have not sow at all or have just down precious seed among thorns. So, you must watch out and make sure to follow the master.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Whether it is the too flashy jewelries, the very tight clothes,
cleavages and other excessive indulgence, Christian female ministers especially must be careful so that you don’t put stumbling blocks on people’s way at knowing the saviour.</div>
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Cleavages and inappropriate dressing cause distraction for
men and women alike. <a href="http://blogs.bible.org/engage/sue_edwards/the_cleavage_gap" target="_blank">Sue Edwards</a> ,an author interviewed lots of men for
her book <b>Mixed Ministry</b> and told how much cleavage distracted them. The
men “said with just the bit of a woman showing, the man’s mind goes to the
whole thing. Not one man said its ok, I am used to it.....no big deal.”</div>
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<a href="https://www.quora.com/Is-it-ok-to-show-ones-cleavage-while-in-church" target="_blank">Brian Andrews</a> said” modesty is an increasingly rare
commodity in this day and age and I believe women and men could use with good
helping of it. You've got to realize that men are very visual oriented and you
are going to distract us that way whether we show it or not. We have had a hard
enough time with all the tv an magazines that show blatant sexual content
while trying to keep our focus on God. For a woman to be showing off in church
to me seems almost like an insult to injury scenario.”</div>
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Meagan, a mother of four boys, 21 , 12,11,and 8 respectively
had this to say on modesty. “I didn’t go through issues like I have gone
through with my 3 youngest boys. They are very visual, and I had no idea what
or how it affected them to see girls women hanging out (in exposed dressing)
all over the place at a summer theme park few years ago. They were asking me to
do something about it…imagine that. They
knew in their heart that it wasn’t right.”<o:p></o:p></div>
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This is not a church police thing here, neither am I been judgmental.
The bible asks us to speak the truth in love. We all need to repent anywhere...occupy till I come. And though this blog is basically about female Christian
ministers. It is not limited to them. If you are truly saved, you should dress
modestly. And hey! You don’t need to wear a cassock to be a minister. Once you
identify as a Christian and you are talking about your faith, you are already a
minister! People are watching out for words and deeds! More so, your faith requires good deeds too....and your good deeds must be according to the dictate of your Good Master.<o:p></o:p><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-30853360173993097372016-06-27T15:33:00.001+01:002017-04-22T14:17:47.584+01:00KEEP YOUR HEAD IN GAME<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
Hi people! hope you are doing good. Its been an awful longtime on this blog. Firstly, my gadgets broke down simultaneously, one after the other , and then life happened ( got caught up with so many stuffs). Not an excuse though. Well its good to be back.<br />
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Couple of years ago, the hit movie "High school musical" took the teen and children entertainment world by storm. I wasn't a teenager then but I watched the movie back to back! Lol. <br />
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Seriously , with a crazy world of financial pressures, family issues and economic downturn, its hard to keep one's head in the game and focus on purpose. Yea, the word FOCUS, that's what I want to talk about today. <br />
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I was in a bus going home from work one day and there was so much traffic. It was so much that it looked like it would not end. If one of my friends was to be there she would have said " This traffic is caused by witchcraft " .lol.<br />
Seriously, It was horrible. As usual, people began speculating on what could have been the cause of the hold-up. Some said it was the on-going construction( there's truly an on-going work in the area, but common do they also work at night???). Others said the road had been blocked. Lots of different info kept circulating. Some even got off the bus I was in and decided to trek or take alternative route/ means. Some drivers just gave up and turned back. The whole thing was very crazy and frustrating. But, the driver of my bus pressed on, so I decided to stay.<br />
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The journey progressed at snail speed but the driver continued. To my amazement, when we got to the construction site , there was nothing there, all the rumours were so untrue!!<br />
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Then it dawned on me that we need to be focused and press on to achieve our purpose.<br />
On our way to fulfillment of dream/goal, there will be distractions, obstacles, delays and discouragements. Sometimes, we may be tempted to turn back and abandon the goal. But if we do not give up and keep our head in the game, we will reach our destination.<br />
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Be encouraged folks and keep your head in the game!<br />
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Cheers....<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-47657487646141862702016-03-14T15:58:00.001+01:002016-03-14T15:58:28.742+01:00Why is God silent at times?<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Hi people!! How's the week going.This post was originally scheduled for last week but we all know the fuel and light situation that raged through last week. Nevertheless am just gonna post it like that!!! <br/>
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The heat right now in lag is killing... Even NEPA ,PHCN, DISCOS and GENCOS or whatever their power supply company is called are not even cooperating. Which means, we have to spend quite some cash in buying the so very expensive fuel... That's even if you t get fuel to buy. Anyways , it is well o. God will help Naija.<br/>
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I downloaded this wonderful book on <a href='http://themannareserve.org'>Mannareserve</a> and started reading . A timely message struck a cord in my spirit as I read so I decided to share. I pray it will encourage you as much as it did me.<br/>
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EXCERPT FROM "WHEN GOD IS SILENT"<br/>
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Don't Cast Away Your Confidence<br/>
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Hebrews 10:35-36 says,<br/>
Therefore do not cast away your confidence, which<br/>
has great reward. For you have need of endurance, so<br/>
that after you have done the will of God, you may receive<br/>
the promise.<br/>
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Patience will work experience and experience is a<br/>
testimony, something you can tell others about. When<br/>
you are in a trial, rather than crying, “Lord, when is this<br/>
going to be over? When am I going to be delivered from this<br/>
situation?" Why don't you take the attitude that you are<br/>
building a testimony? Think about how testifying about<br/>
how God delivered you from your trial will put a damper<br/>
on the devil's attempt to bring discouragement and<br/>
defeat. <br/>
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I can guarantee you are not the only person being<br/>
confronted by the problem you are facing. There are<br/>
hundreds of thousands experiencing the same trial and<br/>
God will see to it that one day you will cross the paths of<br/>
some of those people to testify about what God did to<br/>
bring you through!<br/>
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Where does confidence come from and what is<br/>
confidence based upon? Experience. Because God has<br/>
come through so many times, I have confidence in Him.<br/>
This passage says not to cast that confidence away for<br/>
something momentary. Don't throw away what you do<br/>
know for some sudden state of “I don't know what to do."<br/>
Don't throw away what you do know for what you don't<br/>
know. Cast not away your confidence because God has<br/>
been so wonderful and faithful through the years.<br/>
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Unfortunately, many Christians do cast away their<br/>
confidence. Don't throw away all of your testimonies for<br/>
some momentary thing you cannot explain. Don't allow<br/>
Satan to whisper in your ear that everything you have<br/>
believed has been wrong, that God doesn't exist or that<br/>
God can't help you and doesn't care when in reality He<br/>
does care.<br/>
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Hebrews 10:36: (NKJV)<br/>
For you have need of endurance (patience), so that<br/>
after you have done the will of God, you may receive the<br/>
promise.<br/>
This passage doesn't mention how long after you have<br/>
done the will of God you will receive the promise, but it<br/>
says you will receive it! And it doesn't say if you're<br/>
questioning God about something you don't understand <br/>
that He is obligated to answer you immediately; it simply<br/>
he will answer.<br/>
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If you want the whole of this ,simply click the above link ,sign up and search for this book and download. The good news is it's free and legal. The site has lots of wonderful Christian resources that has blessed me and helped improve my spiritual life.<br/>
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Blessings folks!!!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-3615654325756680532016-02-25T12:50:00.001+01:002016-02-25T13:19:03.504+01:00Thursday's thoughtsHi people ! How are you today.<br />
Hope you are having a Godilicious week<br />
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I remember one evening I was going out to get something, hubs was half asleep and I didn't tell him I was going out. So I jammed the door without taking the keys and off I went .<br />
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Then I came back and couldn't get in. I remembered hubs was asleep and since he was my only way of getting in , I started knocking. Boy! I knocked! and knocked till I woke my husband.<br />
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Then my thoughts went to Matthew 7:7<br />
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It was the knocking aspect that really struck me. We are asked to knock and the door will be opened . But the truth is, we just knock a little in prayers and stop knocking.<br />
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In my case, I kept knocking till my husband opened. God wants us to be this way. Just like I knocked till I woke my husband and he opened the door, God wants us to keep knocking till we get his attention and intervention on that thing.<br />
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Why does God want us to knock till he opens, knowing fully that God take sometimes to answer prayers. It is not that he doesn't hear when we first lift that request in prayers. He knows what we need and hears our first prayers. I believe he just wants to learn patience, which is one of the fruits of the spirit. He is interested in giving us blessings but more interested in our spiritual development.<br />
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He hears and he answers, and he has a timing for everything. Keep knocking folks till you see the door opened.<br />
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Peace people!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-44484546198606366542016-02-17T17:14:00.001+01:002016-02-17T17:28:31.485+01:00Men of virtue... Are they all extinct?<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
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This post dropped into my heart with much soberness, as I had a chat with the girls during a downtime. <br />
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We got talking about a woman who suffered with her hubs , built a life with him but had no children. Then her hubs went out and had children by other women. She in turn, began retaliating by doing lots of evil stuffs...so I heard.<br />
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Looking deep into the conversation, I admitted that no woman wants a rival. But once a misdeed is done , it is done. If that woman doesn't take grace to forgive her husband, she would commit lots of atrocities and in the process offend God.<br />
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Before I knew it , the conversation drifted to the cheating attitude of men. A colleague then made a statement that sounds like "all men were created to cheat. It's in their nature... Even the Christian ones".<br />
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Then I began to ponder on these words. We have been plagued some much with infidelity from men , and it seems like there are no men of virtue again .<br />
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In all sincerity, I think this statement is half true. Even christian men are heavily involved in infidelity. But I do not believe this is the will of God for men.<br />
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Almost everywhere, we see men , single and married, church goers, church workers as well pastor's committing sexual immorality.<br />
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Christian brothers are convincing their fiancee to engage in premarital sex, pastors trying to have sex with members.<br />
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I had a personal experience with a married church brother. At that time, his wife's shop was opposite my mum's shop. Ironically, I was so friendly and quite close to the wife. This man would leave his wife's shop, possibly pretending to buy something from our place and he would be asking me out. I was not even 18 at that time!!!<br />
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My colleague told me of a pastor in school ( he was married). He preached often against girls following married men. The same pastor would ask her out and invite her to the hotel.<br />
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All this story breaks my heart because people have no faith in men again. Wives now see it as a norm , young girls expect it in marriage , even parents excuse it away by saying " men will always be men".<br />
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Then I ask this question? Where are the mighty men of virtue. Are there no men who hold the word of God in high esteem. I sincerely believe that there are still chaste men and those who are still faithful to their wives . When Elijah lamented to God about being the only servant left . God told him that I have 7,000 men who have not bowed their knees to Baal.<br />
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Men of virtues, it is time to rise up and speak against immorality. Teach and show this generation and the next , that God demands that men be holy in body and spirit. It is not a norm to be slutty. The lord forbids immorality for both males and females.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-34487494541886684462016-02-14T12:18:00.000+01:002016-02-16T12:23:05.701+01:00VA-LAN-TYNE LUV<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
Happy Va-lan-tyne(lol) peeps! Yup! It's val's day, so much red and white around. Though it's is a Sunday but some peeps got plans to paint the town red after service . Others got plans to just stay home like me and hubs, while some plan to be a church warden today so that they can avoid taking their babes out.<br />
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Babe! If your dude does this then it time to get on the running tracks. On your mark ,get set, RUNNN!!!! That boo of yours is worse than Ebenezer Scrooge. Lol..<br />
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Girls often demand lots of things for val's. From flowers to cakes, chocolates, biscuits, fun outings , perfumes and the list goes on. I found myself thinking what do I really want at thus time. I sincerely can't pinpoint one.<br />
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Some ladies and even wives hit the roof when their boyfriend / husband doesn't do anything special for them in vals day . This ought not be so. In fact some guys break up with their girls say, ending of January so as to not spend on val's day.<br />
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This brings to my real purpose of writing. Is valentine's day, the only day to celebrate and show love. No its not. In my opinion ,valentine celebration nowadays is associated with lots of vices such as, fornication, adultery, drunkenness, drug abuse etc. Underage teens sneaking out for outings, people hooking up for a one night stand to mention a few.<br />
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While lots of people use this opportunity to commit atrocities , there are still people who use it to show genuine love . These guys visit orphanages, remand homes, prisons with food and lots of gifts and also give words of encouragement to these children and inmates. Some also use it as an opportunity for family bonding, they have special dinner with family and friends, exchange gifts and share good times together (oyinbo things? not really, Nigerian's do it too). It can also a time for genuine couples ( married or single) to enjoy an date together.<br />
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I don't really fancy telling the history of valentine as there many versions and angles from which its argued . So am not for it or against it .<br />
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The word LOVE today has been confused for attraction , infatuation, pity and lust. Love is often depicted in movies as two adults (unmarried ) or teenagers tearing out each other's clothes just to have sex. Guys be like to their girls "if you love me you will let me sleep with you". What about a guy doing something evil just to please the girl all in the name of LOVE. These are just the devil's ways of camouflaging love and turning our face from the creator of love... God<br />
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God loves me and you ,that's why he sent Jesus to die for us. Babes, he did what all your boos can never do for you... That's is DIE for you. Your bae or boo may leave you in the toughest times but God will never leave you.<br />
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Showing love didn't start with valentine, it started with God, he is the author of love. You cannot love truly or genuinely if you don't have a relationship with him. Humans are naturally selfish and as of such, we often do things to promote our self interest and hurt others as well. That's why there are lots of loveless marriages and self-oriented relationships out there . Understanding the true meaning of love is accepting Jesus into one's life and allowing him to renew our hearts and minds so that we will begin to live a love- filled life.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-82592116003992646762016-02-03T13:17:00.001+01:002016-02-03T13:17:52.278+01:00Tuesday's thoughts..Lessons from King Solomon<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Hi people, happy new month. Welcome you all to a Godilicious February. Stumbled on this piece ,which I wrote sometime last year and decided to share it here. Enjoy peeps.<br/>
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If the story of Solomon were to be made into a movie today,I guessed it would be titled. "Fall from grace".<br/>
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From a young wise lad who feared God to an idolatrous old man totally consumed with lust for much women. How did he get there you might ask, the answer is not far fetched. He strayed away from God's instruction 1kings 11:1-3<br/>
Probably, he also got carried away with the wisdom he had and he became careless.<br/>
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If Solomon lived in the modern times,he would be a fire brand Christian turned apostate.Wow! That's a lot to swallow.<br/>
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It also strikes me that all these didn't happen to while he was young but it happened after he had known God. And God had even appeared to him twice.1kings 3:5-14, 1Kings 9:1-9<br/>
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Matthew Henry commentary says "Those who are so zealous and have made great professions for Christ must be very careful. Because the devil is set more violently on destroying them, for if they fall, their fall would be greater ( Paraphrased)<br/>
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This is a word and warning for Christians ,let us be careful , watchful and continually ask for grace and help of the holy spirit. It just a thin line between Godful and Godlessness. May the lord help and strengthen us in Jesus name<br/>
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Godilicious day peeps!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-85336008570475144282016-01-28T11:16:00.001+01:002016-01-28T11:23:16.182+01:00GRADUALLY BUT SURELY!<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
Hi guys! wanted to do this post for a while. Thank God I am finally doing it. How is your week going people ? Hope you are having a Godilicious time. Haha! Godilicious! will give you the story behind the word later. <br />
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Onto the next one! There is this construction going on in Ogun state around Ojodu/ Yakoyo, the project was kicked off swiftly but was abandoned by the government before 2015 elections and even after the elections. <br />
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Then work started again. At first, everyone was skeptical because, unlike before , there were just few workers working on the road. But then, I remember passing there a few days ago and I noticed how much they had progressed.<br />
Then my brother-in-law's pm on WhatsApp came to mind, his personal message reads.... Gradually but surely!<br />
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I began to ponder on the reality of these words in real life. There is an adage that says a little drop if water makes a mighty ocean. Also repeated actions lead to a habit. This is not far fetched from the truth. <br />
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So how does this apply to real life. Let's say for instance, one of my goals this year is to lose some weight before June. Then I start exercising , eating right and cutting off junks. I might not start seeing results immediately, the scale might even be bulging, but if I keep keeping on (persisting), I will definitely lose that weight. <br />
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What about our finances? cutting back on excesses daily and putting away something to save every month or week really goes a long way . Sincerely, most Nigerians live beyond their budget, little wonder we live from paycheck to paycheck. Its a new year, if we must make a headway financially this year, then we need to develop good financial habits. There is this popular saying that says "People buy things they don't need, with the money they don't have, to impress people who don't like them!" *Chuckles* Guys its time for a change.<br />
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This principles can also apply to all areas of life , be it spiritual growth, finances , health , relationships. If we propose to take one right step towards these areas daily, we might not see results immediately but gradually we would begin to see improvement.<br />
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I am persuaded that God gave us the gift of persistence so that barriers can be broken. I am also convinced that no problem can withstand the power of persistence mostly when coupled with faith in God.<br />
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Life is full of challenges. But Guys, don't run away from those challenges, face it heads on. With faith in God, no challenge is insurmountable <br />
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Letting go of issues is so hard, forgiveness is even harder.<br />
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Forgiveness is one word that is so easy to write , pronounce and spell out but it's a pain in the neck when you decide to practice it.<br />
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Jesus commanded us to forgive but why is it so hard to forgive? Seriously, I dunno, but I do know that forgiveness does not have anything to do with feelings. It's a decision we must make regardless of our feelings.<br />
In this world, there would always be occasions for offenses. Some will be intentional deeds out of a wicked heart , others unintentional. Whichever the case may be, we have to always ask God for grace to forgive.<br />
In a world of abuse, rape, blackmail and lots of vices, we would have to forgive if we will make it through.<br />
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Perhaps you are wondering why is she writing about forgiveness, did she have an issue with forgiveness ? Of course I did. But before we get to that, it was a novel that actually inspired this write up.<br />
I love to read and write. I downloaded a novel titled "Design on a crime" from christianbooks.com.<br />
The plot was woven around a murder that led to series of investigation and accusing evidences kept pointing to an innocent person. As the story neared the end , it was discovered that Marge was murdered by Gussie! But why? <br />
Marge had an affair with Tom Gussie's husband fifteen years ago. The affair caused Gussie to develop complications during her pregnancy which she lost . Mark ended the affair but Gussie's emotions have been severely damaged. Years later , Mark met with Marge to discuss business. Gussie heard about this and thought the two were back together. Gussie didn't deal well with the affair before and after the miscarriage. She had became emotionally stressed and deluded, this made her a kleptomaniac and ultimately caused Marge death!<br />
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This shows me that bitterness is harmful in many more ways than one.<br />
Bitterness stemming from unforgiveness can cause stress, heart attacks, sickness to mention a few.<br />
My sis and I had a favorite quote we used in our teens , which is "Life is too short to date ugly boys". ( Don't mind us , we used it till we realised that looks aren't everything )<br />
Rephrasing this quote, I would say " Life is too short, to hold grudges throughout ". Grudges don't allow us to enjoy life, it steals our joy and holds us captive . When you see the person in question, you feel a strange sensation of hate! I don't want to go through that and I don't think anyone should.<br />
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In my own case it was an ex-boss . He frustrated me so much to the extent that I willingly resigned. I remember praying several times to forgive him after resigning from that place of work. Every time I remember the stress and the evil he put me through, I would feel a strong sensation of hate ( Even after forgiving him) . But then, I decided to continue forgiving him as every time a I remember, I even started praying for him ...strange huh! <br />
I know but we have to do what God commanded.<br />
Guess what? God vindicated me in the end. He got into serious trouble with the directors and he was asked to resign. This happened after I had left. All am saying is forgive, let go and leave it to God.</div>
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Happy new year people!!! Yes 2015 has come and gone and 2016 is here . <br />
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2015 was a hell of a year. Looking back , I really had lots of would haves and should haves , not to mention the fact that my blogs posts were so meagre till I finally went AWOL. And yes, I added some extra pounds and finally chopped of my long and beautiful relaxed ends (tears) ...just kidding. While I missed my long hair, I. am having a whole new experience with an all natural hair.<br />
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Having reviewed my 2015, I was very determined to make my 2016 better. I came up with some ideas which I shared with my children in Sunday school , will share those later .<br />
On Saturday the 2nd I think, I was going through my mail and I decided to check a particular email from Terri Savelle Foy ministries. There was one thing mentioned in the email that struck me, its simply "developing successful habits". This tells me that there are unsuccessful habits. <br />
Developing successful habits will make one successful and unsuccessful habits will make us unsuccessful.<br />
Terri stressed that our lives, success and failures are a product of our habits.<br />
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A habit is an established custom or an automatic pattern of behavior in reaction to a specific situation, may be inherited or acquired through frequent repetition.<br />
The kind of habits we take on in life, is going to heavily influence our lives.<br />
Giving an example on savings, most people including me can't seem to save, its like we just blow up the paycheck and wait for the next one. Or we keep wishing that we will land a super mega job that pays in six figures , (nothing wrong with that) the truth is that this rarely happens. But we can choose to discipline our selves financially by putting away a percentage every month. If one puts away 10,000 as saving by year end it will be 120,000 .<br />
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We keep looking for the big fat burner that will make us slim, and hot within two weeks. We have forgotten that constant discipline of the body, through exercise and healthy eating is what will keep us fit. Fifteen minutes of daily exercise and avoiding junk food will go a long way losing that fat.<br />
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Having said this, one of my visions for new year is to develop successful habits and I sincerely hope you will do same.<br />
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Once again,Happy new year people!!!<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-47076911882755427702015-11-25T17:29:00.001+01:002015-11-25T17:29:42.913+01:00BOOK TOUR/ GIVEAWAY<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Hiya Everyone!! its so good to be back. Just in time to clear off all the cobwebs on my blog.<br/>
Someone very dear , inspired and encouraged this long desired come back. And yes! You guessed right, its my girl Frances.<br/>
If you have ever read most of my posts, you would have read about her more than once.<br/>
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Asides the fact that she pursues her goals relentlessly, She also possesses a great penmanship with divine inspiration. Not exaggerating.. <br/>
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That's why I have dedicated my resumption post (lol) to her book tour/ giveaway.<br/>
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Told you she writes eh! Now, she has taken it to a new level. She recently wrote and published 10 steps to walking in purpose . Another good news thing is that she is giving it away free !!!!!!!<br/>
Read on to get the details;<br/>
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Book Review<br/>
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10 steps to walking in purpose<br/>
Author: Frances Okoro<br/>
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This book is a liberation and eye opener to those who have been pondering on the meaning and purpose of life .<br/>
Frances infuses originality , transparency and ingenuity into this book. She shares profound wisdom in a heartfelt way that will keep you yearning for more.<br/>
In addition , you will find step by step action plans and nuggets that will guide you into walking in purpose.<br/>
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The Giveaway<br/>
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Here's comes the big catch! My girl Frances is doing a giveaway on this particular book. Wanna get a free copy ? then follow the instructions below.<br/>
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1. Share the book cover of this book on instagram or twitter with the link of this post and hastag #10stepstowalkinginpurpose<br/>
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2. Comment on this post with the twitter handle or email used to share this book eg. @tosinviva or flossy.242@gmail.com<br/>
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Winners will get their free books on 31st November ,so hurry now as we have just few days to go.<br/>
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PS: Thank you girl for giving me a copy. Now, peeps don't go on envying me ,act fast and you too will get one.</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-69507853321895495362015-08-28T11:45:00.001+01:002015-08-28T11:45:02.207+01:00SOME WEEKEND BANTER.. ALSO FOR DEEP THINKING<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>"A lady walked into a pet shop, demanding for a parrot.<br/>
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The owner: "We have 2 kinds: one repeats everything you say & the other thinks for itself!"<br/>
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"I think I'll like the one that thinks for itself", replied the lady.<br/>
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The owner brought out her choice & told her to quiz the parrot.<br/>
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"How do I look?", asked the lady.<br/>
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"Like a prostitute!" replied the parrot.<br/>
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"This parrot is rude: I won't buy it!", said the lady.<br/>
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"Pls give me a moment!", replied the owner as he walked towards the backyard with the parrot.<br/>
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He dipped the parrot into a bucket full of water & warned the parrot: "If u are rude to that lady one more time I will drown u in this bucket!"<br/>
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When the man came back to the counter he told the lady: "Now ask the parrot anything you wish and I assure that he will be polite"<br/>
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CONVERSATION<br/>
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Lady: "if I come home @ night with a man, what'll you call this man?"<br/>
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Parrot: "Your husband!"<br/>
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Lady: "Good! What if I come home with 2 men?"<br/>
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Parrot: "Your husband & your in-law!<br/>
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Lady: "Good! Good!! What if I come home with 3 men?"<br/>
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Parrot: "Your husband, your in-law & your brother!"<br/>
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Lady: "Gooood! What if I come home with 4 men?"<br/>
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The parrot looked back at the owner & said: "Pls go & drown me: I said it earlier on that this woman is a prostitute!<br/>
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My point is aren't we all like this prostitute? We claim we want the truth but do we really like to hear the truth even if it hurts.<br/>
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Blessings</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-23159200917331656962015-08-25T14:12:00.001+01:002015-08-25T14:12:30.716+01:00For Deep thinking..... <div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>On Saturday morning as I was doing my chores, I decided to put on the the TV for company . The channel was on AIT. It was some ICT news that was going on initially, then it changed to a gospel program.<br/>
Pastor Paul of Dunamis gospel Intl centre was the one preaching .<br/>
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One word from the him, stopped me and shook me to the bones . He said "you would really blame yourself, if you followed Jesus here on earth and still find your self in hell."<br/>
Oh my! You need to see my face.<br/>
How does a Christian come to church , declare as Christian and still go to hell? Its simple . They continue in sin on purpose. That is, living / talking in an ungodly way etc.<br/>
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Its truly a waste if one follows Jesus here and still end in flames. This is a wake up call for Christians. Serve God with your everything. Don't just be a Christian by Church going or by mouth. Be a Christian in words thoughts, deeds. Be completely sold to God<br/>
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Pastor Paul went further to mention some things that happen to you, when you are truly transformed by Christ.<br/>
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1) Change in lifestyle and habits <br/>
2) Change in apperance. <br/>
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On point 1, I sincerely agree. If people can't say that your life has changed for good, then your life is not really transformed by Christ.<br/>
He gave an example of clocking in at the place of work. When Non Christians get to work late,Say 9am, they write 7:45am in the register. Its sad that even Christians do it . <br/>
What about cheating in the examination halls, lying to get contracts etc. If so-called Christians continue to live the lifestyle of an unbeliever , they will not make heaven.<br/>
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On point 2, he said that there is a godly look and also an ungodly look. There is something called the appearance of an harlot.<br/>
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He said that the appearance of an harlot is an appearance that markets the flesh as a commodity. The tight clothes, the plunging neckline, revealing outfits and outrageous dressing. In our pop culture of leggings and skinny jeans , pencil skirts, mini gowns/ skirts, clinging dresses, even Christians are guilty , so am I . We even wear them to church! I am not condemning anyone, I just think its hi-time we sit up so we can make heaven .<br/>
Let's dress modestly and appropriately.<br/>
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You might want to check out Pastor Paul's webpage <a href='http//:www.dunamisgospel .org/'> here</a> <br/>
This particular program airs between 8am - 9am or 8:30am - 9am.( I am not sure when it started but I know it ended 9am). And of course , its on a Saturday.<br/>
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Am not much for marketing churches. Infact, I just got to know about the church that day. But if I get good stuff from a place, I think its worth sharing.<br/>
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Blessings.</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-79231031235741455392015-06-16T01:05:00.001+01:002015-06-16T01:05:20.511+01:00Sexy Back!!!<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Am sexy and I know it!.....Does that cliché sound familiar? Am sure it does. We live in a highly sexualized society. Everyone is so aware if their sexiness. We all want to look hot and sexy.<br/>
I got this off a friends dp and I thought to my self "Tosin you should should write about this."<br/>
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According to this pix, if you were plus size several years ago, you will be considered as sexy. But today, you have to be super slim ...like Barbie doll, and still have the right curves in the right places....now that's something interesting to think of.<br/>
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Unfortunately, it is also something to be worried about. Women are going through extreme means just to look hot. Those means include going under the knife (cosmetic surgery ), excessive waist training and extreme dieting to mention a few.<br/>
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Don't get me wrong, I like to look good. I also believe in weight management. Besides, if you are fit and healthy, you will definitely look good. But when it gets to an obsessive state, then its time to draw the line . The society we live in right now, is totally obsessed with looks. <br/>
And no one is free from the weight loss rave.<br/>
Plus size women have complex because they think they are not so beautiful.<br/>
People of larger sizes are been teased mercilessly by peers, families, friend and even the media.<br/>
Young girls think they have to be a beauty queen to get a real man.<br/>
Husbands want wives to look like the leggy 18 year old on the front page of Cosmo. Even though the woman has had five children for him, she is still expected to look like a cover page model. Forgetting that it took several childbirths, for a woman's body to get there.<br/>
Lots of men treat their wives with contempt just because she is fat/ overweight.<br/>
In the entertainment world, you have to look hot regardless of your talents. More so, you only have two options in the industry. You either lose the weight fast or you enjoy hot criticism on how you look.<br/>
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We are loosing values too fast. Things that shouldn't matter are now our priorities.<br/>
We are all about looks. In fact, <br/>
good looks is an idol that is widely worshipped today.....Selah <br/>
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One Question? Who should really decide rules for looking good. You or the world system.<br/>
Well, I like to let you know the the world system is unreliable, fickle, and can change anytime.<br/>
The only way to decide rules that should govern our lives is through unchanging word of God.<br/>
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Consider this verses below and meditate on it;<br/>
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We have forgotten the person of the heart which ultimately maftters to God.<br/>
It takes more than a hot body to be a good woman , wife, and a good mother.<br/>
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Looking good is definitely good business. But, it becomes bad business, when its obsessive , unhealthy, and judgmental.</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-63968311152655164442015-06-10T21:50:00.001+01:002015-06-11T11:55:45.685+01:00My Birthday Story<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">Only God knows what got into me to write this. Some say when you get intellectually high, creativity is born. I definitely assure you, that no drugs were involved it was pure joy. <br>
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On my birthday, pops woke me up with a phone call, and doused me and hubs with loads of prayers.<br>
Thank God for praying parents. If you have one you have got a treasure. If you haven't got one, become one and be a treasure to your children . Popsi of life! I love ya!!! Guess you can't say that to African parents. Just skip the first part and say "I love you", and don't forget to say it in English. It kinda sounds awkward in Yoruba or is it just me. lol <br>
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Moving on...you would think with early morning blessings, I would start out on the right foot. But Nah! I didn't. My evil side kinda poped up, I got into trouble with someone very dear to me. Definitely not hubs, but someone very awesome. Thankfully,we made up. Our short lived clash got me thinking on how birthdays should be celebrated. <br>
Should it be a time of reflection or time of gyration and celebration.<br>
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With my serious face, I stated pondering over my life. Good lord! I am getting older.<br>
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I don't have wrinkles yet, but I am not sixteen again like last year....erm , don't look shocked I wasn't actually sixteen last year. Lolz<br>
But, I will surely start having wrinkles someday and won't really be a pretty face again. At least, think I am a pretty face. ( Chuckles) <br>
I thought to myself , when I am leaving this world I want to be assured that I have known the truth and lived the truth. I don't want to regret not doing the right things or making the right decisions. It would be a shame if I never learnt from my mistakes ,never made brave decisions because of cowardice.<br>
I want to have lived the life and left no stone unturned. I don't mean doing drugs, booze, stripping poles, doing all sorts of crazy stuffs. I simply mean I want have fulfilled before hitching the death ride. I want to be like paul, who said "I have fought a food fight." <br>
That's how I want to end. And thus, my reflections showed me things I need to do and not do. And also the things I need to keep doing, so I can end well<br>
Man's days are fleeting and it soon passes away. Like flower that blossoms and withers, so are the days of our life. It's so easy to be carried away with everything going on and lose sight of God and our purpose.<br>
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Ok! so you would think I reflected all through the day. Nah! I didn't not. Hubs, been the one with pleasant surprises popped up his surprise and I was like yaay me! Its time to giddy up. So we partied in our own way . oh dear! I even abandoned my diet. No thanks to those sumptuous meals, I now have some extra pounds to deal with. Not to worry Sergeant Green tea to the rescue! <br>
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Ahh! This post is getting do long and I am getting tired. Why don't I have voice typing app ? Even Google voice app seem to understand our English at all. Nawa oh! If this app can't understand Lagos accent, then how will it understand pidgin? Smmh* <br>
Somebody please pass the word to app developers. I was thinking by now the app should be able to understand Ijebu and also type it.lolz<br>
I guess I'll be rounding up now (News flash). <br>
It will be terrible if I end this post without acknowledging those who sent me heartfelt wishes. My family, My sweet in-laws ( they were really sweet), My church fam ( most especially my fellow teachers ). Old school mates, blogger friends,Facebook friends, longtime friends. Its so good to have awesome friends around you. I really felt like a princess even though my father is like 10th in line to throne in my village. Lwkmd.<br>
Thank you all.<br>
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One more thought; this post was scheduled for my birthday, why wait till today before posting? Should I continue? Kai! you too like gist.<br>
Peace people!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com2Lagos, Nigeria6.6672586 3.3536507tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-20219656118916338582015-04-29T23:57:00.001+01:002015-04-29T23:57:02.327+01:00MY BESTMAN 4<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'><a href='https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-wzYuNtmI2JQ/VUFhusFgc2I/AAAAAAAAAj0/4lq7ASVqUFc/s2560/1430348215417.jpeg' onblur='try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}'><img border='0' src='https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-wzYuNtmI2JQ/VUFhusFgc2I/AAAAAAAAAj0/4lq7ASVqUFc/s350/1430348215417.jpeg' style='display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;'/></a><br/>
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Hi people! Here is bringing the next part of this series. If you missed the previous part <a href='http://chavivas.blogspot.com/2015/04/my-bestman-3.html'>Click here</a><br/>
Enjoy!!!<br/>
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Tale laid down on her bed as she as sobbed uncontrollably <br/>
"Oh God! Oh God! Please forgive me , forgive meeee."<br/>
"How did this happen", she thought to herself. Her life had been fairly interesting in the past four months as she was been courted by three young men.<br/>
Uche, she liked least of them. He wasn't six feet tall, he was kind of handsome but not like Reynolds and Alvin. He didn't even have a car and for heaven's sake he just got a job in a private firm.<br/>
Alvin was the most good looking of them. He didn't have a car too, but at least he could borrow his brother's anytime he needed to take her out. Besides, he works in a multinational company and he talked about getting a brand new car before the year runs out. He even asked Tale the kind of car she preferred. Not to mention the fact that, he had a height of a basketball player, and a smile that could melt a woman's heart. "Oh dear!" She sighed.<br/>
Reynolds was also handsome but not as Alvin. He isn't so tall, but he is considerably taller than she is. And he was rich, so terribly rich. With a house in Lekki, three latest cars, a power bike and flourishing businesses to mention more. He had swept her off her feet with gifts, exquisite dinners and shopping sprees. She was even starting to dream of a life with him. <br/>
"Oh God! I can't believe this. What have I done? I am so ashamed of myself" she wailed, as she continued sobbing.<br/>
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Tanya waited at the welfare stand as she scanned the dispersing congregation for her friend. She had been so worried since she got the text from her friend yesterday . <br/>
She was getting ready for bed at 11:30 pm when her phone buzzed with an incoming text. She saw it was from Tale and quickly opened it. <br/>
" I need to see you unfailingly tomorrow", the message said.<br/>
Fear and anxiety gripped Tanya at the same time. " What could be wrong with Tale" she asked herself. Oh God! please help my friend , please don't let any harm come to her.<br/>
Tanya was jolted back to present as someone tapped her in greeting. <br/>
Finally, she saw Tale working towards her. Something must be really wrong, Tale is not looking her normal cheerful self. Tanya muttered to herself.<br/>
As She waited for more crowd to thaw, Tanya discovered Tale was not alone. <br/>
"Kai Tale!" she said to herself, "who be this again o! Tale and all this boys.Hmm"<br/>
Finally, Tale located her friend at their usual spot. The two friends hugged each other in greeting.<br/>
"Tanya this is Uche from the youth group. Uche this is my friend Tanya".<br/>
"Nice to meet you".<br/>
"same here". They said as they exchanged pleasantries.<br/>
"Ladies I'll be on my way", Uche said as he left the girls.<br/>
"Hmm, Tale! Tale! So that's your Ibo dude".<br/>
"Ehenhen! Tanya please, he is not my dude" Tale retorted sharply. "But I told you all about him. We just gist and talk. I already told you he is not my kind of guy".<br/>
"But he keeps inviting your for outings".<br/>
"And I am always turning them down".<br/>
"He looks like a calm guy, why do you hate him so much" <br/>
"I already told you. He is not my type. I don't blame you Tanya you already have a fiancé so you don't know how rigorous it is to find a perfect man".<br/>
"Haha!" Tanya laughed.<br/>
"A perfect man, does he even exist?"<br/>
"Yes o! I want a perfect man and I will get it".<br/>
"Then maybe you consider marrying Jesus!"<br/>
"Jesus ke! Which kain person u be Tanya? why are you being troublesome. She said as both friends laughed.<br/>
"But you wanted a perfect man. Look, we are all imperfect and as Christians we strive for perfection as we live out God's word daily".<br/>
"Egbele o! Here we go again. Pastor Tanya, I have enough preaching today, I don't think I need extra. Henhen lest I forget, I have some thing important to discuss with you. Let's find a place to talk".<br/>
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Tale and Tanya settled down in Joann's place, an eatery close to their church. After placing their orders, Tanya looked straight at Tale . <br/>
" You can start talking now" .<br/>
"Hmm tale sighed! Girl, I messed up big time and am so ashamed of myself", Tale began to sob.<br/>
Tanya reached for her hand, "Its ok, just tell me what happened".<br/>
"Its Reynolds! its Reynolds!" she continued sobbing <br/>
"What happened to Reynolds?" <br/>
"I went to his house on Friday and and....."<br/>
"And what Tale?"<br/>
"He proposed to me".<br/>
"Wow! that's great news"<br/>
"Just hear me out Tanya. He got me a very beautiful diamond ring and I was so excited. We ate , drank, and had so much fun. Before I knew it, his lips was on mine and we started kissing".<br/>
"Oops!" Tanya gasped<br/>
"Then then..."<br/>
"Then what?" her friend eyed her curiously.<br/>
"He carried me off the bedroom".<br/>
"What !"<br/>
"Please hear me out Tanya. He carried me off the bedroom. I protested violently but he was already on top me and his weight pinned me down".<br/>
"Omg Tale ! What happened next, did he rape you?<br/>
"No, he didn't", she shook her head . He asked me to let him have sex with me since we were already engaged. I tried to convince him that I believed in sex after marriage but he said he loved me so much and couldn't wait to have me. He told me how much he loved me and the kind of beautiful life we would have together . He even promised that he come and see my parents immediately we leave his place. So I agreed".<br/>
"No Tale you didn't?"<br/>
"I did!" , Tale said as she burst into tears again. <br/>
"So, did he do it?"<br/>
He started kissing me again, and I allowed him to remove my clothes. But I still had my undies on. He was about to remove my undies,when I heard a clap from behind. I jerked from under him to find a pregnant woman in the room staring down at us.<br/>
"What! How did she get there? who is she?"<br/>
"I didn't know at first. But she dragged up Reynolds and gave him two hot slaps. Then she made a move for me. I quickly picked my clothes and ran out of the room. She chased me to the living room, but she couldn't get to me because Reynolds was holding her back. She called me a bitch and slut. Ha Tanya! I suffered", she sobbed.<br/>
"So what did you next?"<br/>
"Me? What do you expect. You want me to remain in house? I grabbed my bag and escaped outside. I didn't even take my shoes!" <br/>
"Were you able to dress before you came out?"<br/>
"Dress ke? No o! Do I know what would have happened if I had spent another minute in that house? I had to dress up in the gate house!"<br/>
"Wow! Tale that's a handful." "But, who is the woman and why is she is behaving like that?"<br/>
"Well", Tale answered looking very embarrassed. "She is Reynolds wife and she lives in the states."<br/>
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To be continued</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-34722732107719306012015-04-22T18:28:00.001+01:002015-04-22T18:34:23.043+01:00THE FEMELLE FACTORTwo weeks ago or was it three? Can't really say. Anyways, some weeks ago I got myself watching the series "Scandal' by chance. Though I would say It's not really my kind of series. Reasons? It had some pretty explicit sex scenes, which made me turn my face away or ask it to be forwarded, when those steamy scenes come on. Hey! Don't blame me, I am a Jesus groupie. I have got to flee from all appearances of evil.<br />
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OK, so back to the point. From the little I watched, the series revolved around a woman with the name "Olivia pope". She was what you could call a fixer. Hahaa! Now you are interested, let get the movie started, Gengen! Lol<br />
Don't mind me joor, I watched too much of E! Channel in my university days. In fact, my sister and I started to gesture like the celebs, do their kind of hairstyles and even posed for pics like celebs! We were serious Hollywood wannabes. My sister who was in med school at that time, even entertained the idea of dropping medicine for acting! Thankfully, that's past us now. But really if you have have an opening, most especially in Hollywood I would be willing to take it. Who ever said I can't diversify. Just don't call me for a sex scene or strip tease shots.Lol<br />
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Now that you are laughing off your head ,shall we proceed. Jeez! where did that word come from "laughing off your head". Seriously, people don't become headless because you are enjoying a good laugh. <br />
Is this suppose to be a comedy post or what? I guess I should have just called it " Time to laugh".<br />
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Moving on, like I said earlier, Olivia was a fixer, she fixed tough issues and made problems go away. And she worked with the president. (Bigz Girls) <br />
Olivia went from having an affair with the Presido to dating one of his ( president's ) personal aid named Jake. A lot of things happened and Olivia's boyfriend got framed by Olivia's father for the murder of President junior(The president's son). Hmm,wahala dey o!<br />
Oga president dealt with Jake no be small.One would think the president <br />
did this because Jake was accused of murdering his son. But the underlining truth was that Oga presido was so mad that Mr Jake was sleeping with Olivia. Chaii! woman palava.<br />
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Afterwards, the president was to deliver Jake to Olivia's father for further prosecution (Olivia's father intended to kill Jake unknown to the president. Remember, he was the one who framed Jake initially).<br />
Olivia got to know about her father's plan and she went to the President to request that Jake shouldn't be handed over to her father.<br />
Then the shocker happened. As they argued back and forth,Olivia threatened that if he handed Jake over to her father, then he should forget about getting back together with her.<br />
Then Oga at the top (Mr President) asked Olivia if she would go back to dating him if he didn't release Jake to her father. Of course, madam Olivia agreed. Wow!!! All hail the power of woman, or should I say it was booty power/ bottom power.<br />
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At that point, It dawned on me that women held so much power to influence and shape a number of events.<br />
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The world has had its share of influential women who shook the world greatly. Some for good and some for bad.<br />
We have seen manipulative women as well awesome women in homes, offices and government who affected their spheres positively and negatively.<br />
Whether you admit it or not, the way a family turns out is 80 percent based on the mother's influence.<br />
A bad woman can tear brothers apart and good woman can make them bond closer.<br />
One of my hubby favorite saying goes thus " Educate a man, you educate one. Educate a woman and you educate a community."<br />
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Women are caregivers, helpers, advisors , nurturers,multi-taskers and the list goes on. But the question is how are women using those abilities? And these abilities are what I call the femelle factor. Maybe I should make the question a bit more direct. How am I using my femelle factor? How are you using your femelle factor?<br />
Do you use it to inspire or depress, do you use it to help or manipulate, do you use it for the welfare of others or for your selfish reasons.<br />
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Every word a woman speaks, every action she undertakes, every decision she makes goes out to influence a generation<br />
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How are you using your femelle factor.<br />
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Nb: Femelle means Female in French<br />
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The cliché BAD has gone so viral today or should I say global. We hear phrases like BAD girl , BAD boy , BAD ride or sometimes wicked ride. Oops!<br/>
Well, if you are not familiar with hip hop culture you wouldn't understand what it means. Oldies move over. The truth is bad is usually used in the hip culture to describe cool things. Twisted, huh?I know, I feel the same way. A bad girl/ boy means a cool/ happening guy/ babe. A bad/ wicked ride means a very cool car. Hmmm,<br/>
I can't help but remember a scene from watching the series "Suite life of Zack and Cody", years back. The kids were describing something cool and they ascribed it as "BAD". The older people around looked confused as to why those kids would gladly indulge in something bad. Then, the hotel manager intervened by saying " Kids nowadays, bad means good." This is the kind of culture we live in today.<br/>
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While people may be going with the flow and unconcerned. I feel a bit ruffled about this. And the unfortunate truth of this is more teens and youths want to be bad than good. Like I said earlier, to them, bad means cool. It is believed that if you are bad as a guy , you get more popularity , more girls etc. Also bad girls get to have more fun. And "GOOD" in itself has gone into obscurity.<br/>
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What happened to calling a spade, a spade. What happened to those times when good deeds and conducts, were been praised among youths. When was the last time you heard a teenager /youth talk proudly about being a virgin? Nah! That's not in vogue again, you have got to experiment. In fact, they are ashamed to let people know they are one and can't wait to shed off their virginity.<br/>
You don't dare tell your peeps you don't drink, smoke or do drugs, you 'll just become a laugh stocking. More than ever "BAD" is gaining upper hand and the few young ones who believe in "GOOD" are too ashamed to stand up for it.<br/>
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It is time we call a dog a dog and a dove a dove ( tautology intentional. lol) . Lets face it, Bad means evil , terrible, devilish, amidst a lot of other horrible meanings, so why would I want to be associated with bad! <br/>
While the media and even parents are aiding the decadence of morals, It is essential that you and I have to stand up for the "GOOD" we believe, so that others will come to the light.<br/>
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I believe in saving oneself for sex till marriage<br/>
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I believe that a good name is better than riches<br/>
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I believe that good and God fearing guys are the ones you should date and marry. No matter what a bad boy looks like or how much he has, he not worth me.<br/>
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I believe in good character and morals.<br/>
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I believe that a real woman's worth is not in how she looks or dresses, but in the strength of her character and inner virtues.<br/>
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I believe in Jesus. And I know when come to him , he turns you from bad to good.<br/>
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What do you believe in?</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-25474703557468479012015-04-02T23:15:00.001+01:002015-04-02T23:15:19.292+01:00MY BESTMAN 3<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'><a href='https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-rup-2uOoqqI/VR2_dDXzAgI/AAAAAAAAAig/mX5_nEkaEDM/s2560/1428012914813.jpeg' onblur='try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}'><img border='0' src='https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-rup-2uOoqqI/VR2_dDXzAgI/AAAAAAAAAig/mX5_nEkaEDM/s350/1428012914813.jpeg' style='display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;'/></a><br/>
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Hey people! How is it going? Congrats to Nigerians on a well deserved victory on the presidential polls. Nigerians came out in mass to vote. In my polling unit, I saw the aged and disabled wait for hours just to cast their vote. Nigerians are beginning to understand the meaning of democracy.<br/>
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Just for laughs: My living room turned to a "situation room" as the results of the polls were been announced. I became the Returning Officer while hubs was the Coalition Officer. I called out the results as it was been announced and hubs typed out the votes accruing to the various parties. Even when my sis called, l had to tell her "Please call me back ,you are calling at a critical moment!" Lol <br/>
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Back to business, So here is the part 3 of fiction I have been working if you missed the previous edition <a href='http://www.chavivas.blogspot.com/2015/03/my-best-man-2.html'>click here</a> <br/>
Kindly let me know your thoughts on it.<br/>
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Lunch with Reynolds was a wonderful affair. He and Tale dined in Royal Affair in Ikoyi. He spared no cost as he ordered the best cuisines. After lunch, he suggested that they check out the Deluxz boutique, a few blocks from the restaurant.<br/>
They got to the boutique and began window shopping. Suddenly, a beautiful pair of nude stilettos caught Tale's eyes. Tale is a sucker for nude shoes, she couldn't just take her eyes of it. <br/>
"Do you like it ?" A voice from behind said. She turned around to find Reynolds staring at her.<br/>
"He must have caught me admiring the shoes" she thought to herself.<br/>
"Yes , I was just admiring them."<br/>
" Why don't you try them on?" <br/>
" No way, I can't even afford them! "<br/>
"Just try them on Tale, don't be a party popper" he urged.<br/>
"Ok'' she finally gave in.<br/>
Tale tried on the shoes and it was a perfect fit.<br/>
Reynolds walked away as she admired the shoes .<br/>
"Tale," he called from the counter, <br/>
"I think we should get going? "<br/>
"Ok, just a minute" she said as she stooped to remove the shoes.<br/>
"You don't have to remove them, you can wear them out."<br/>
"What! That would be pilfering."<br/>
" Well," he answered "not anymore. Its yours now."<br/>
Tale eyes grew big "No Reynolds ,you didn't .... He gave her a nod with wide grin. <br/>
"Thank you ,Thannnk you, thank you! She exclaimed joyfully as she made her way to the door.<br/>
"Eh Madam," the sales attendant called out to her. "You left the shoes in which you came in, and you also forgot to collect the box for the new shoes."<br/>
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"Gist me joor" Tanya said as she chatted with Tale on the phone.<br/>
"As I was saying Tanya, I had the best time of my life. Reynolds gave me a treat of a life time."<br/>
She chatted on about their date to Tanya. <br/>
"He must be so boxed up to give you that kind of treat o!" Tanya replied <br/>
"You can say so Tanya. Infact, I think I just caught a money bag. I don't mind that kind of man for a husband o!"<br/>
"Eh hen! But,is he a Christian?" Her friend asked.<br/>
"Well, he should be, because he told me he attends the Tabernacle of Grace."<br/>
"Oh! you mean the church in Lekki."<br/>
"Exactly."<br/>
"OK, Tale just be careful .You know you cant just marry anybody, you have to pray about it and carefully study the guy."<br/>
"Pastor Mrs Tanya! I don hear o"<br/>
"Am serious Tale....."<br/>
Tale's phone began to beep with another incoming call .<br/>
"Tanya, please I have to go now, Alvin's is calling me."<br/>
"Who?" Tanya asked <br/>
"Allllllllvin ,the guy I met in church the other day.Remember?"<br/>
"Oh! I remember"<br/>
"OK babes take care." Tale said as she ended her friend's call.<br/>
"Hello"<br/>
"Hey! Tale, its Alvin"<br/>
"Hi you ,what's up"<br/>
"Was thinking of going to the cinemas this weekend, we could go together if you don't mind?"<br/>
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Church ended 10am as usual. Like every Second Sunday, Tale had to wait for the youth meeting.<br/>
The meeting proceeded as usual with Sola the president, presiding over it <br/>
"You are welcome to our monthly meeting. If you are joining us for the first time, could you please signify by raising your hand?"<br/>
Several hands went up and a loud applause filled the room.<br/>
"You are all welcome." Sola continued <br/>
"Please move to the right hand where Tale our PRO, will receive you and write down your details. We look forward to seeing more of you. God bless you."<br/>
The meeting ended after thirty minutes. <br/>
Tale put the visitors form in her bag and stood up to leave .<br/>
"Excuse me," came a voice from behind .<br/>
She turned around to see a man staring at her. He happened to be one of the newcomers to the youth group.<br/>
"Hi, my name is Uche."<br/>
"I just wanted to tell you that I liked the way you anchored the youth fiesta."<br/>
"Oh ! Thank you." she smiled<br/>
"Will see you next Sunday right?"<br/>
"Sure." she replied<br/>
"Cool. have a nice week." And he was gone.<br/>
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This year, I decided to move round the blogsville and interview bloggers. So I titled it <b>BLOGTRIP</b>.Today, I have got here a very good blog sister and pal. I would have love to gush about but that will spoil the fun. Instead, I would let you sit back and enjoy the interview.</div>
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<b>__Me:</b> Could you please introduce yourself?</div>
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<b>__Frances:</b> Hi hi everyone!</div>
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My name is Frances Oghenerukevwe Okoro.</div>
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You aren't allowed to call me my native name except you are a "personal person" sha. *winks*</div>
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__Frances: Ok, I started blogging in September 2013. I started up because I was always disturbing my BBM contacts with the words in my head and most of them wanted me to get a blog and "free them". Lol.</div>
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But really, I started blogging because I had all these words streaming through my head and I knew that God had put them in me for me to share with others so I basically had to start blogging or be sentenced to writing behind my school notes(which isn't a cool thing I tell you)</div>
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__Me: You recently moved your blog to a permanent domain, what inspired that decision?</div>
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While I was in Law school last year, I basically started feeling like God wanted me to take blogging/writing for Him seriously (my blog is a christian blog).</div>
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Like seriously, I loved myself like crazy but my arms and tummy in one of the pictures that I was snapped on my 20th birthday gave me the push to get fit.</div>
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I just got tired of being unhealthy and unfit and decided to change it.</div>
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I started jogging in school then, cut out junks-soft drinks, biscuit and all, started eating more protein based foods and good carbs and I also did some detoxing with fruits to cleanse my system before I changed the foods I ate.</div>
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__Me: Would you like to share what you weighed back then and now?</div>
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__Frances: Like stated already, I weighed 98kg in 2013 when I started my weightloss journey (I must have weighed more because I had already started my detox programme before I checked my weight for the first time)</div>
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As at yesterday, Saturday March 7th, the day before I wrote these answers, I weigh 74.3kg.</div>
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__Me: Frances,you are so full of passion and visions. I feel your vibrancy and energy every time I visit your blog. How did you become that woman?</div>
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__Frances: Passion and vibrancy kwa?</div>
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Heh! I'm flattered.</div>
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But seriously now, I guess that passion flows from knowing that God has a lot for me to do on earth.</div>
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He has a purpose for me to fulfill here on earth and my greatest desire is for me to fulfill what God has set me apart to do for Him from the beginning of time.</div>
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Fulfilling God's purpose for my life is even more important than marriage to me(not that marriage isn't sweet and important), so I try as much as possible not to slack at what God has placed in my hands.</div>
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I guess another reason why I am really passionate about fulfilling visions and set goals is because I know where I am coming from.</div>
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God turned this small girl's life around and I don't want to fail Him or let Him down.</div>
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All you see in me is all God.</div>
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That's how I became this woman - all God.</div>
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__Me: One of my favorite segment on your blog is "Lessons from when I almost dated an engaged man." Why did you start that column?</div>
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__Frances: Oh, the "lessons from when I almost dated an engaged man" is a post under the segment of "Frances's love letters" on my blog.</div>
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It's a segment where I write letters based on love and relationships from the Christian angle every saturday.</div>
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I wrote "lessons from when I almost dated an engaged man" from experiences I had had with a friend who was engaged to be married to someone else.</div>
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God had practically "ordered" me out of the friendship because feelings were getting involved.</div>
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I learnt so much from that episode and I only write and share things when I feel led to do so.</div>
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The incident happened last year but I only wrote and shared my lessons on my blog this year.</div>
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I shared that post because I thought that people could indeed learn from my experience and know that God is interested and concerned about who we court/marry and He has a plan for us all maritally.</div>
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__Me:OK, enough blog questions, let's move to some lighter questions. When did you have your first crush and what happened to him?</div>
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First crush...</div>
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I think I was 14? Or 12? Or 10? </div>
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I sha know that there was one guy that I was liking who was always carrying weights in our compound then. He never gave me face sha.</div>
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Then at 14 I think I started liking phone pals I had never met before(small pikin things, mtcheeww)</div>
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__Me: I know you love movies, what is your favorite movie and why do you like it?</div>
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__Frances: Favourite movie?</div>
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Now this is hard to say oh.</div>
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Maybe "My sister's keeper"</div>
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Or "the vow"</div>
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Or "transcendence"</div>
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Or "the giver"</div>
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Or "the colour purple"</div>
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Or "Facing the giants"</div>
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Oh well, you can tell that I don't have a favorite.</div>
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I used to like the romantic movies and autobiography movies like "biography of Margaret thatcher" but these days, I don't watch too many movies anymore and I tilt more towards the christian movies like "fireproof"</div>
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I am selective with what I watch now and I'd rather watch something what adds positively to me (with maturity comes sense I guess? :-)</div>
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But I really do love "the notebook" though.</div>
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Do you know that the husband and wife both died on the same day in each others arms in that movie? *sniff sniff*</div>
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__Me: What is your dream man like?</div>
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__Frances: Don't get me started on this, the list is longggg! Lol.</div>
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But thankfully, God has dealt with me about this list thing. You will have to read the post under Frances's love letters on my blog to find out about the lessons on "the list".Hehe</div>
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But seriously, the first thing he must be is a man that loves God.</div>
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Not a Christian for mouth, a man that places God above everything, even me.</div>
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He should be matured, not just in age, in brain too.</div>
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He should have found God's purpose for his life as we can't just be moving on a merry-go-round chase, what am I to help him with if he has no destination?</div>
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He should be hard working of course, lazy men are appalling.</div>
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It would be great if he is soft spoken as I tend to be really outspoken with strong mind set (God is working on that)</div>
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And eh, it won't hurt if he doesn't have a pot belly... God please, let him be one that takes fitness as seriously as I do. please.lol</div>
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The inner attributes are more important than the outer though, the outer ones are "jara". But God is able and will give me more than I set my human sights on.</div>
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__Me: What is your favorite outfit combo?</div>
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__Frances: Outfit combo kwa?</div>
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I'm not a fashion person oh.</div>
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Gimme jeans and top any day and I am good. Lol.</div>
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But I love gowns, I think they make a lady look elegant.</div>
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And I love it when I wear tucked in shirts in corporate pants, complete with really high heels. Now, that makes me feel fly! Lol</div>
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__Me: What is the most embarrassing moment you have ever had?</div>
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__Frances : Embarrassing moment?</div>
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I don't think I have ever said this out loud to anyone before.</div>
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When I was at boarding school(secondary school), I mistakenly oh, farted (messed) at prep class one day.</div>
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It was a loud one and so embarrassing!</div>
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I couldn't say anything at all and one wicked senior was just shouting "who did that?"</div>
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I wanted to melt in my seat!</div>
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__Me: Tell us something that blogsville doesn't know about Frances?</div>
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__Frances : What does blogsville not know about me????</div>
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I cry when I don't get what food i'm craving at the time to eat... I already wrote this in my 20things about me post on my blog.</div>
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*Thinking*</div>
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__Me: Thank you Frances, do you have any parting words?</div>
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__Frances: Just thank youuuuuu!</div>
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I hope I nailed the questions.</div>
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Thanks for having me on here.</div>
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Cheers babes!</div>
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There you have it people! Here is a stunning picture of Frances below;</div>
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Guys you should go hang out with Frances.Trust me, there is no dulling moment with her.</div>
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<a href="http://imperfectlyperfectlives.com/">Her Blog</a></div>
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<a href="http://google.com/+FrancesOkoro">Google+</a></div>
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<a href="http://twitter.com/FrancesOkoro">Twitter</a></div>
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<a href="http://instagram.com/frances_okoro">Instagram</a></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5657704631366415495.post-51860273503677282942015-03-17T14:36:00.001+01:002015-03-17T14:36:55.834+01:00Life Saver<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Hey guys! How have you been? Hope you had an awesome weekend? And thanks for asking, mine was a blast. I got to attend an interactive marriage retreat with my department in church. It was so much fun. People really opened up and we discussed so many topics ranging from communication, to expectations in marriage, to sex in marriage amongst a host of others. And of course, there were some chop chop and takeaways. winks.<br/>
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Happy mothers day to all the mamas, soon to be mamas, as well as expectant mamas. God bless ya all.<br/>
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Its a wonderful experience to be a mum. My friend sent me this on whatsapp and I thought I should share it below;<br/>
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Curriculum of a Mother<br/>
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Work Experience<br/>
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-psychologist📝<br/>
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-baby sitter ....👶, <br/>
-drycleaner.....👕, <br/>
-cook......🍲<br/>
-musician.....🎺😲<br/>
-housemaid......🙍<br/>
-hairdresser.....💇, <br/>
-pediatrician......👷<br/>
-other unspecified activities to be decided on the spot.....<br/>
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Working hours:<br/>
-24/7 , 365 days<br/>
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SALARY<br/>
-Her children's smile!!😄<br/>
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As hilarious as this sounds, it's so true.Once again, God bless all the mamas!<br/>
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So you might be wondering what my post title means. Hang on, and I 'll gist you. Some might say "just cut the chase and stop beating around the bush." Another would say " just hit the nail on the head". But we all know what the nail can do it head ,it can kill! So let's just go straight to the point. lol<br/>
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Since my tab crashed, blogging has been difficult for me because I have to use my phone. I had so much frustrations with the blogger app that I was using. One of the problems I often encountered, was loading pictures in the desired places. I also had issues with link backs, writing in italics, and bold fonts anywhere I wanted.<br/>
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Then God sent me an angel, a life saver .....BLOGGEROID!!!!!<br/>
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Roftl. Don't mind my funny way of introducing the app.Seriously, it has reduced my stress on blogging. It easy to use,the instructions are clear and simple. It's available on Google store. If you host your blog on Blogger, and have difficulties blogging, you should try it out. It is indeed a life saver or maybe I should called it blog saver. lol</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704261297564803792noreply@blogger.com1